This is the advice President Obama gives to Sophia, a little girl and the daughter of a gay couple who wrote to him about her ‘situation’. It is a heart warming exchange of letters that I totally recommend for you to read either below, or directly at the source, at lettersofnote. I think it’s a great advice, especially when it comes to bullies or people that just want to put other people down (rightfully or wrongfully, it doesn’t really matter). Sophia sounds delightful, her dads must be so proud 🙂
Little girl’s letter transcript:
Dear Barack Obama,
It’s Sophia Bailey Klugh. Your friend who invited you to dinner. You don’t remember okay that’s fine. But I just wanted to tell you that I am so glad you agree that two men can love each other because I have two dads and they love each other. But at school kids think that it’s gross and weird but it really hurts my heart and feelings. So I come to you because you are my hero. If you were me and you had two dads that loved each other, and kids at school teased you about it, what would you do?
I just wanted to say you really inspire me, and I hope you win on being the president. You would totally make the world a better place.
Your friend Sophia
P.S. Please tell your daughters Hi for me!
Mr Obama’s reply
President Barack Obama
November 1, 2012
Miss Sophia Bailey-Klugh
Thank you for writing me such a thoughtful letter about your family. Reading it made me proud to be your president and even more hopeful about the future of our nation.
In America, no two families look the same. We celebrate this diversity. And we recognize that whether you have two dads or one mom what matters above all is the love we show one another. You are very fortunate to have two parents who care deeply for you. They are lucky to have such an exceptional daughter in you.
Our differences unite us. You and I are blessed to live in a country where we are born equal no matter what we look like on the outside, where we grow up, or who our parents are. A good rule is to treat others the way you hope they will treat you. Remind your friends at school about this rule if they say something that hurts your feelings.
Thanks again for taking the time to write to me. I’m honored to have your support and inspired by your compassion. I’m sorry I couldn’t make it to dinner, but I’ll be sure to tell Sasha and Malia you say hello.
(Signed, ‘Barack Obama’)